Dorsa Ahlefeld, APRN

Reviews

• 04/26/2026
  

  I am very disappointed and upset with this provider. My daughter has been struggling with leakage and frequent UTI's for several years and we started seeing this doctor last year and have had two visits. The first visit was great but last week was completely different. She sounded very nasty when I suggested that some of my daughters odor issues cleared up when she started wearing pad liners to help catch the leakage. My biggest concern was the way she chose to deliver her medical advice. While her advice made sense but she was excessively rude. She used shame tactics to tell my daughter she needs to fix this issue. She continuously referred to my daughters use of pads as wearing diapers, told her she doesn't want to go to school wearing a diaper and be laughed at by her friends and definitely doesn't want to end up still in diapers when she starts middle school in the fall. At one point, she looked to me and said she could tell by looking at me that I must be exhausted with fixing this issue because I looked worn out. I was tired looking because of a completely separate issue that had nothing to do with why we were there. I had explained that I was mainly worn out because I have a 4 year old I am potty training and she immediately started in on my daughter again saying that she shouldn't be letting her younger sister get potty trained before she is. She tried to "apologize" by saying this was simply the mean grandma she had to use to make her point. My daughter has 2 grandmas who have had to be "mean" and would never speak to a child this way. I have been coming to this hospital for years with my daughter and I have had such a high opinion, primarily due to her orthopedic provider. My issue was not with the proposed care plan, her patient communication was abysmal and left my daughter feeling embarrassed. She's embarrassed enough about growing up, she didn't need a grown adult throwing more shame in her face.
• 04/26/2026
  

  I loved this experience with NP Dorsa Ahlefeld. I wish I got the same level of enthusiasm, cheer and positivity at my regular GP.
• 04/07/2026
  

  Dorsa did not listen to my concerns at all. She wrote off everything immediately. She kept making extreme statements about my daughter dying. This was all within the first five minutes. After standing up for myself and my daughter, she softened and listened and we were able to come to a better place. But based on my initial impression, I asked to see a different provider next time. I would never recommend Dorsa to any friends or family, and she left a very bad impression on me for OU children's as a whole.
• 03/15/2026
  

  From the moment the NP walked into the room the bed side manners were terrible. She came in telling my son to put up his school work and to listen to what she had to say. I as the parent felt as if my voice was never heard with my concerns.